Skip to main content

22: Real Coaching With Randi

By July 30, 2018November 1st, 2023Mastermind Parenting Podcast
22: Real Coaching With Randi

In this episode with podcast listeners, Julia and Brooke, I cover many topics that I think many of you will relate.

To apply to be coached on the podcast.

Topics covered:

  • Strong willed 8 year old with a sensitive nervous system who is super affected by lack of sleep and sugar

  • Younger brother with easier temperament looks up to his older brother and mom worries that he is learning problematic behavior from big brother

  • Dr. Bruce Lipton and Epigenetics

  • Subconscious programming during the first 7 years of life and living in a Theta brainwave state

  • Why mind mastery is the way to reprogram our adult brain

  • Why strong willed kids propel us to learn how to reprogram our brains and become our biggest gifts

  • Easy kids don’t present enough of a challenge for us to take the time to learn something new…wouldn’t it be more fun to binge watch Orange is the New Black rather than listening to parenting podcasts?!?

  • It’s human to enjoy our easiest kids more and this has nothing to do with how much we love each of your children

  • Sibling rivalry and why it often does have to do with jealousy because the strong willed ones know that we enjoy easier sibling more

  • How our dynamic from growing up shows up as triggers when we see our kids display that same dynamic

  • Mediation tool, my conflict resolution tool, to handle sibling rivalry…”victim first”

  • The #1 mistake is going to the aggressor first. Ex: “Stop hurting your brother”.

  • What you focus on grows

  • Focus on the healing not the hurting by going to the “victim” first rather than the aggressor

  • Strong willed 3 year old

  • Less is more and quality over quantity…why Brooke nailed it by saying no to doing all the “best mom ever” stuff on the weekends

  • Highly sensitive people and Elaine Aron’s work

  • Anxiety and learning to see it as your superpower

As always, thanks for listening, and be sure and head over to Facebook and you can join my free group Mastermind Parenting Community, where we post tips and tools and do pop up Live conversations where I do extra teaching and coaching to support you in helping your strong-willed children so that they can FEEL better and DO better. If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it!

About Randi Rubenstein

Randi Rubenstein helps parents with a strong-willed kiddo become a happier family and enjoy the simple things again like bike rides and beach vacays.

She’s the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the Mastermind Parenting podcast, and author of The Parent Gap. Randi works with parents across the U.S.

At Mastermind Parenting, we believe every human deserves to have a family that gets along.

Randi’s Social Links

Links & Resources

Apply for free coaching!

Thank you so much for listening and being an amazing mama that listens to parenting podcasts! I absolutely love connecting with other moms during the “Real Coaching with Randi” monthly segment and share their story. If you’d like to get some free coaching on a future episode, head over to and hit the Apply button.

Get my book!

Hear about my family history and the tools that have helped me replace old parenting patterns that simply don’t work with these puzzling kiddos. It’s my way of paying it forward as a human that wants our kids to experience a kinder and more generous world. Head over here to get your copy >>

Thanks so much for listening to the Mastermind Parenting podcast, where we support the strong willed child and the families that love them!

If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the share button in the podcast player above.

Don’t forget to subscribe on iTunes, Google Podcasts, Spotify, or Stitcher.


Coming Soon!

Happy Household Cover

Sign Up for Our Newsletter and Get Our Free Guide

Creating A Happier Household

by Randi Rubenstein