Parenting is hard but it shouldn’t be

this hard.

It is exhausting to drudge through the day feeling like you’re barely hanging on. You love your child’s strong willed spirit, but it’s taking over the entire family, creating chaos, and everyone is struggling.

Here’s the secret that no one’s talking about: the old parenting methods DO.NOT.WORK. in our modern world and our most challenging kiddos are here to “inspire” us to learn a better way.
The more we attempt to threaten, punish and control them, the more our most “outspoken” kiddos dig in their heels. If you’re here, you probably already know that.


Due to popular demand, we have finally made our N.I.C.E. Parenting Tools, found only in our signature 12-Week Basics Bootcamp Program, available as a

100% online self-study course!

You can take your family from

surviving to thriving!

I’m Randi, the founder of Mastermind Parenting, a neuroscience inspired behavior program that helps parents stay calm during button pushing moments with your kids so that you can support them in becoming the absolute best versions of themselves.

On my journey with my own strong willed kiddo, I discovered something amazing that totally transformed my household, my children and most importantly, MYSELF.

New parenting tools that work,



Our kids are over-stimulated in a way that we never were. They are overwhelmed, stressed, anxious, and it’s no wonder really that our highly sensitive (strong willed) ones are constantly on the edge of an outburst. What our kids really need is for us to become the adults we hope they grow up to be!


I’ve never met a parent whose goal wasn’t to be a good mom or dad. However, our desire for our kids to be happy all the time can greatly impact the way we guide them and often stops us from being the pack leader they need.


Did you always swear you’d never repeat the mistakes your parents made? And yet one day you open your mouth and out comes the “unhelpful” words of your own mom or dad?! Don’t worry, you’re a normal human who simply repeats patterns. That is, until you take back control through self-awareness and mind mastery. Learning the tools to “master your mind” is how you can close the gap between the parent you want to be and the parent you show up as when you’ve had 3 hours sleep and your kid is pushing your buttons.

Learn the Mastermind Parenting Basics Framework: Needs, Investigate, Communicate, and Enforce (N.I.C.E.), to

solve any parenting problem!

From defiance to meltdowns, disrespect, morning mayhem, bedtime battles, homework struggles, and more, the goal of learning these tools is to reach even our most challenging kids, while also helping you become a connected family that truly gets along!


Online access

to our MMP 12-Week Basics Bootcamp Program content

MMP content library

access with hundreds of trainings and resources to help you through any scenario

Topics covered include

Sibling Rivalry, Meltdowns & Tantrums, Sleep Routines, Food & Mealtimes, Bullying, Lying, Homework Struggles, And MUCH more!

Invitation to our Facebook Group

so you can ask any parenting questions and our team members will provide you with tips to overcome any challenge

Access to our Private Podcast

You'll hear a variety of coaching scenarios to help support you with all types of challenges you may be facing with your strong-willed kid that you won’t hear anywhere else!

Sign up for a 3-day FREE TRIAL and

reach even the most challenging kids.


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After your free 3-day trial you will be billed only $49/per month and can cancel at any time.


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Experience a safe and intimate place to learn and apply our Basics Bootcamp N.I.C.E Framework for success and listen to real coaching to parents inside of our community in our Private Podcast.


Create a peaceful household

You will take your family from surviving to thriving, even with strong willed kiddos.

The Parent Gap | Parenting a strong willed child

We’ve been there, and our community is ready to

support you.

As a mother of 3 children, I’ve lived the experience that “you are only as happy as your unhappiest child” for 23 years and counting. Having a challenging kid impacts every member of your family. As I continue to learn, these kids are placed into our lives for a reason – we are being called to more…to do this “parenting thing” differently than the way most of us were raised. We can listen and keep growing alongside our kids or we can walk on eggshells and feel imprisoned in our own homes. I choose the growing path. Creating a village, consisting of like-minded parents, helps me to stay accountable to myself, my family and my chosen community. Bottom line: Our strong-willed ones are calling us to lead them in becoming the change we’d all like to see in the world.. Here is how the Mastermind Parenting N.I.C.E. tools have helped…

The biggest shift has definitely been my behavior and how I handle situations, and I don’t feel hopeless and overwhelmed anymore. We say I’m sorry a lot more in this house...all of us, me, my kids and my husband. My 5-year-old HSC hasn’t even had a true meltdown in a few weeks, probably, and they used to be almost every day. When my 3-year-old was having a tantrum, my 5-year-old even said “mommy doesn’t respond to tantrums until you’re calm”, so he does listen to things I say every now and then! I try to let the kids problem solve together when they both want a toy, we use timers a lot. My husband and I are also ultra focused on basic needs like sleep and food, and recognize when we’re in a situation that is not going to be resolved until our kids sleep or eat! 2 positive choices had also been fantastic, especially with my 3-year-old who likes to feel in control at this time in his life. So much progress made here since April! I’m looking forward to continuing!

Ali G.

There are a lot of parenting programs, coaches, blogs, podcasts and books out there! I should know! I have bought, engaged with, listened, read, and highlighted my way through many of them. Some are good, but few are great! Mastermind Parenting is great! Randi brings a rare combination of expertise, original and carefully curated resources, real-world experience, humility and authenticity to her program. I have been with Mastermind Parenting for over a year and a half and it has been a true agent of change in my family AND my life. Real and lasting change. The kind of deep enduring changes that impact the present and the future generations of your family. To me this is priceless and I am grateful.

Andrea A.

Randi is BEYOND amazing and has far exceeded our expectations of what we sought to get out of a parenting class. She has allowed us to see the world through new perspectives and parents from a place of calm, love, and connection. Her tools have not only improved our relationship with our kids, but have also allowed us to connect and grow in our marriage and work life.

Kerri J.

Just wanted to say thank you to all of you for your support and for sharing your life and stories. I feel blessed to be part of it and to learn and grow alongside you. I am a better version of myself because of this group and so thankful for that.



What is the Mastermind Parenting (MMP) Minimasters Self-Study Program?

The MMP Minimasters Self-Study Program is a self study, on demand package that will give you access to our WORLD CLASS 12-Week Basics Bootcamp Program to solve any parenting problem, access to our Private Podcast where you can listen to live coaching, as well as our content library with our on-demand trainings that cover topics including:

  • Sibling Rivalry
  • Meltdowns and Tantrums
  • Sleep Routines
  • Food and Mealtimes
  • Bullying
  • Lying
  • Homework Struggles
  • And MUCH more!

Who’s it for?

The MMP Minimasters Self-Study Program is for those who wants access to our 12-week Basics Bootcamp Program and all of our parenting content, but who wants to study at their own pace.  You will have access to our Facebook Group if you have any questions about anything you find on the app!

How much does it cost to join?

The MMP Minimasters Self-Study Program is a self-study course. The investment is $49/month and includes a 3-day free trial! You will have access to our content library that cover topics including sibling rivalry, tantrums, food and mealtimes, bullying, lying, homework struggles and MUCH more!

What happens after I join?

We’ll send you an email within hours and get you set up to begin learning immediately. We pride ourselves on excellent customer service and give every member more love and support than you can probably imagine. We believe in honesty, integrity and total transparency.

How do I access the materials?

We have a private Mastermind Parenting app that you will receive access to after you sign up. This is where you will access all of our content. You can log in from your phone, tablet or computer and will be able to download some content for offline use as well. You will also get the secret link to our Private Podcast.

What if I invest in The MMP Minimasters Self-Study Program, then decide it isn’t right for me?

We’d hate to see you go, but that’s why we are offering a 3-day free trial! But if you feel like The MMP Minimasters Self-Study Program is not right for you, we will work with you and allow cancellation you can book a free call here. 

What if I have more questions?

Simply email us at or schedule a call here Schedule Call Now to get in touch with a Mastermind Parenting Coach.

We’d love to help!

Just look at what these Masterminders

have to say.

I just wanted to tell you all that I truly believe that what you focus on grows. I’ve been listening to Randi Dunn-Rubenstein say it for a while, but it occurred to me in the last day or so how true it is. Before we started basics, my strong-willed kiddo was so difficult all the time. But when we started basics and my husband and I shifted the focus from correcting what he was doing wrong to working on how we showed up as parents, everything changed. I am not saying any of us are perfect (far from it) but we spent years in therapy focusing on him and his misbehavior once we took the spotlight off of “fixing” him and shifted our perspective and how we relate to him his whole demeanor shifted. Kind of crazy! Thanks for reading.

Aryn L.

I never knew there could be so much joy in the HARD. I am the type that grew up seeking the easy. Randi has said to lean into the hard so many times, which I resisted until it became impossible not to surrender to it due to life circumstances. Being in it has made me more present and grateful. So thankful for this community and for becoming a more grateful, present and kind human.

Erika M.

Thanks for the coaching today! I was making too much of it. I need to remember to keep it simple, let her sit with her feelings, good or bad. But when I hear “I just hate him so much”, I want her to figure out why, I know why, but I want her to know why and address it. That’s not what I’m here for.

Have had productive conversation with 11-year-old about 5th grade drama and kindness, I think we did well with it!! It’s a little draining sometimes but it’s been good.


Big mind shifts are happening for me! It's amazing once I decided to focus on some areas and stop some behaviors that made a differenced.
2019 Mantra: Decide. Commit. Do.
Looking back, I never 100% committed to the changes.

The changes feel SO good and have been surprisingly easier than I expected. 🙂

Nikki O.

Ongoing learning and support is here.

If you need more support, then join our 12-week Basics Bootcamp program. You’ll receive a hand-holding experience while learning the MMP tools, get direct access to the MMP Team, and join weekly live coaching calls with Mastermind Parenting Founder, Randi Rubenstein.

Free 5-Part Video Series:

Learn How to Set Limits without Spanking, Time Outs, or Sticker Charts

Mastermind Parenting | The Tools Your Family Needs To Get Along



Randi Rubenstein helps parents with a strong willed kiddo become a happier family and enjoy the simple things again like bike rides and beach vacays.

She’s the founder of Mastermind Parenting, host of the Mastermind Parenting podcast, and author of The Parent Gap. Randi works with parents across the U.S.

At Mastermind Parenting, we believe every human deserves to have a family that gets along.