In this episode, I talk about why conversations are often unproductive and how to change that. We often think we’re having a conversation but it’s really just a lecture in disguise. A conversation that is centered around a parent’s agenda to “teach” a lesson is really a lecture. I think you’ll find this episode enlightening to say the least...it may even slightly piss you off. Love ya!
How do I get my child to do ____? This is a sure sign of control and always leads to an unproductive lecture
You’re in The Parent Gap and thinking that if only your child would learn the things you want to teach them then they’d behave better and life would be smooth sailing
“You do you.” Why are you so triggered? Why are you attempting to control your child? What are you missing? What’s your child’s perspective? Did you really dig in and begin the conversation by seeing their perspective and putting your agenda aside?
You didn’t actively listen. You jumped into problem solving and missed this crucial stepl
Recap: The 3 reasons your convos are unproductive:
Control and a hidden agenda
Lecturing instead of active listening
You’re in The Parent Gap
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